The term BDSM encompasses three distinct subcategories of behavior within its four letter cyclical acronym; BD (Bondage and Discipline), D/s (Dominance and submission), and SM (Sadomasochism or Sadism and Masochism). BDSM relationships may include any or all three categories and range from short term casual “play” encounters to fulltime “24/7” roles. BDSM behaviors are so diverse in content and underlying meaning that a concise, all-encompassing definition is difficult to devise.
Weinberg, Williams and Moser (1984), using the term SM, found five features that exist in most BDSM interactions. These features include:
1. Dominance and submission – the appearance of rule and obedience of one partner over the other.
2. Consensuality – a voluntary agreement to enter into SM “play” (interaction) and to honor certain “limits” (ground rules of how involved and in which direction the play can proceed).
3. Sexual content – the presumption that the activities have a sexual or erotic meaning for at least one participant.
4. Mutual definition – the assumption of a shared understanding by the participants that their activities are SM or a similar concept.
5. Role playing – the participants assume roles either for the interaction or for the relationship that they recognize may not be based in reality. (Weinberg, Williams, & Moser, 1984).
It is important to note that BDSM based relationships exist on a wide continuum of behaviors, genders, lifestyles and timelines. While these five elements may describe a large part of BDSM activities, they are not all encompassing.
A relationship that participants do not define as BDSM may include many of these features while another relationship may not. Some people enjoy a lifestyle that has an ongoing undertone of BDSM in everyday interactions while other people isolate their BDSM behavior to occasional sexual encounters (Kleinplatz & Moser, 2006).
Males have a need to be controlled, being the submissive gender by nature.
Though they may bitch about it to high heavens, they crave it inside like water to their bodies. This is where the supreme female reigns. I see so many men who appear to be “dominant” and pretend… men in high places, holding heavy titles in society like judges, military officers, police officials, major banking CEOs. You don’t believe this? You’d be surprised at the diversity in high society of the clients who have come to me.
You see… they have the control all day long in their jobs. On their off hours, they are able to be themselves, submissives. They need it by nature, males being the submissive gender. But in high society, they are not able to do this and they are not able to let themselves be revealed. This is where phone domination helps as well as private sessions with their favorite dominatrix. It is their only way of release. Their identities are protected from society and politics, they submerse themselves into their true realm of reality, servitude to the powerful and sensual female, their natural desire.
You are not alone. There are many of you that call me and submit to their true desires. I enjoy being able to fulfill this. It is my nature. I am a dominant, strong, sensual and powerful woman. I am who you need.
Yes, you now have the opportunity to call me and talk with me on the phone. Discreetly. I am now available for phone sessions and distance domination, expanding my erection collection around the globe. I enjoy twisting and molding you like clay in the palm of my hand, watching you squirm in agony and ecstasy as I do.
Not getting enough attention at home? Nobody to listen to your cravings and needs? Want to discuss your wildest fantasies, fears and fetishes? I’ll pick into your mind and dissect you like a frog, putting you back together my way.
Do not be under the impression you are calling me for “phone sex.” You are calling me because it is only I who can give you what you crave and need. You know you want to submit to me, serve me and spoil me. The little french fry between your legs shivers at the thought, doesn’t it?
To be at my feet and whim, to have earned that privilege… the urge to cast your gaze up to my green eyes and say “Yes, Mistress.”
Males have a need to be controlled, being the submissive gender by nature.
